Introduction:
First for those who are new to The Secret, a quick brief explanation its a theory called "The Law of Attraction" in simple terms you attract what you disperse and this process can be summed up into 3 simple words "Thoughts become Things". Whatever you are thinking and feeling will be manifested as an outcome in your life. If you still can't get the point of it i strongly recommend you to purchase this book "The Secret" and you can also look into this link "http://thesecret.tv/" all credits goes to Rhonda Byrne. For people who already know about the secret you can skip through the intro, anyways do not skip the "To do" and "Not to do"
A little bit about how i understood secret. First when The Secret was introduced to me i was skeptical, so a simple way to find a solution is to test the theory, so i put it for testing i made a desire to make 50,000Rs within a month and it was quite a big amount in a short period for a torpid. And yes i didn't receive the money so like everyone i simply quit it saying "
This stuff doesn't work".
Believe me this is the peak point, this is where 70% of the people give up on the secret. It is the
persistence and determination which you have makes it work, you have to implement the secret with
love and interest and that is the
first golden key. And it happened naturally to me when i was surfing the internet i came across the video made by The Secret where all the great people explained about it. I realized my mistake and then i implemented on something which i desired the most and i used to write stories on word everyday "only about the good things that happened to me" and i was shocked at the results everything happened just like i wanted it to happen. After that my lifestyle changed i started doing stuff which i assumed to be impossible and my personality has grown way better, lots of people started respecting me and i started sharing the secret to my friends.
Step 1: Asking
List down your desires and the amount you require to buy it, and give yourself a time gap within you you want it to manifest. Also write down how you want your life to be in every way. And just don't do it like a college assignment then it wont work, the gist of it depends on how you feel. And you can self identify how much you are interested when you write it.
Step 2: Testing (Believe)
Believe its gonna happen and this is the most important step you will meet more situation and places where you find others having what you desire for instance if you wish to have a best bike you will find many people around you having that bike, this is the most important task "The Universe" will test you whether you are worthy for it, in this step you should not emit any negative emotions like hate, jealous or envy. Instead say the words "Bless you" put yourself in their shoes and wish them kindheartedly.
If your blessing for them is veracious you will automatically feel happy. And that is what the Universe expects, it expects you to be worthy for such a gift even if its a small earring or a big airplane it has the same energy same vibration. And all the universe (you higher self) wants is you to value it.
Step 3: Receiving
This is the most important task i say this is because most of the time when you wont get what you desire you will get disappointing, but you shouldn't the secret always wants the best for you. So if you didn't receive what you desired simply close your eyes and say the words "Its for the better" or "This is Good". If you cross this final hurdle your desire will be manifested 10 times more than what you desired.
An example story:
I wanted to buy a camera when i was in college and at that time i didn't know anything about cameras i didn't even know what SLR means, i started surfing internet without any idea i didn't ask suggestion to any professional i decided to buy Canon Sx50 hs point and shoot and i followed every step carefully but in the end i couldn't buy that camera instead i bought a 1100d dslr camera, and i wasn't quite happy at that time because i didn't understand why i received it yet i said to myself "This is good" months later i learnt how to use a DSLR camera, that is when i came to know that using a DSLR camera shows professionalism, likewise it has no end: it has wide range of interchangeable lenses and also the image quality in a DSLR is lot better than a point and shoot. If i had bought the point and shoot camera at that time i would have missed a lot in my life. So never underestimate a situation or an instance that universe sends for you because it may be more valuable than what you desire for.
Why i am saying this is because humans makes mistakes, we are easily gullible and what every we see we blindly believe it to be true, for instance if you are deeply in love with someone for some specific reason you eyes become blindfold and you pursue that the person is true and will remain true to your in future but it cannot be evident he/she may be a cheat inside and puts a mask before you, in such cases, The universe decision towards you can be harsh but it is for your better life, your true love should only be for the person who is worthy for it. Whatever happens its for the best.
Secret - To Do:
- Feel happy and Cheerful when you ask.
- Feel Grateful for the things you already have.
- Write down your goals/desires, spend time on writing or typing it on word pad, say how your life want to be.
- Teach your friends the secret help people recover from their troubles. Because it is when you give you will receive an abundance.
- Say Thank you when you receive your desire, even if the outcome is not as expected
- Every morning when you wake up say the 10 things you are grateful for.
- Every night before sleep tell 10 thank you's for anything that had happened that day.
- Love, give love instead of jealousy, Bless/wish the people who are in abundance don't envy them.
Secret - Not to Do:
- Negative emotions like fear, hate, jealous, envy, depression remove them and when such thoughts arises don't say no to it, instead shot "sorry, i don't have time for this" if you say that your sub-conscious mind will stop bringing up that thought.
- Feeling cheerful doesn't mean you should be laughing at a sad movie. Lots of people do this mistake, every emotions is important for an human being how much faith is important for secret to work likewise feelings are important, you cannot live a life without crying, if you live that way i am sure you will get bored. What the secret teaches you is simply this. When you face a difficult situation you will feel frustrated by it and its a feeling which everyone goes through and it is important to undergo it but the next step it to bring yourself stable and face the problem and when you face that problem with a positive attitude you can solve it in seconds, instead if you feel bad about it and try to solve it with that feeling the problem will become more tangled and hard to solve. To sum up the whole point in order to solve a problem your mind should be clear to find a solution and your mind can only be clear if you are happy.
- Control anger, its important for all short temper readers because this not only gives you a bad result but also the important point is others will use your anger to there benefits. If you are a short temper person it is easy to manipulate you against you loved ones. Best ways to control short temper: THINK if someone is complaining about your beloved to you, your short temper will make your mind to blindly believe it to be true. It never gives time for you to think. If such a situation occurs where you are about to burst stop and think, why do you want to burst what results will you get, and is the reason convincingly true? and think of how the other person will react when you forgive them instead of shouting at them. Most of the time Forgiving a person will cause more hurt than harming/scolding them.
- Never say i don't have this i don't have that, because you will keep saying it even after receiving what you have desired. You cannot realize it when you are complaining about something.
- Like wise never point fingers on other that you can't be what you want to be or can't have what you want because of him or her or anybody, you are responsible for who you are.
- Never complain about things be it whether if your chatting with a friend or in a phone call never day "My life is bad", "I face lots of troubles". Because when you say this it will be automatically registered in your sub-conscious mind
Tips: (For better results every-time)
- Think that things are happening for you, if there is any situation or circumstances where an new idea crosses your mind, think its the universe sending a chance where you can work for reaching your desire.
- My lucky number is 7, what about yours?? Have something special like a shirt or a watch and use it in rare occasions and tell yourself that this is my lucky watch whenever i wear it everything happens well on that day, remember only use it on rare occasions and this can be evident when you find that while wearing that watch you will have a best day
- Have a diary, daily write the thinks you are grateful for and the people you want to thank who had helped you some way on that day.
- Give, help poverty people help people who deserves help. It can be a great improvement in your personality. It can make you a better person.
- Superstition: Daily morning after you wake up arrange your bed, fold your blankets. Its important because there is a belief that if you fold your blanket you will have a good day.
Good luck friends, you had came here and read this and i am sure that this is your first step towards success. My best wishes for you to have a happy and a peaceful life.
"Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase"
- Martin Luther King
Thank you have a nice day.
